What do you get your kids as they get older? What do you give your spouse as the years pass on? What about grand kids when there are so many? Start a tradition in your family of giving the gift of time.
My mother has done this each year with my sister and I. Every Christmas we get a handmade gift certificate wrapped up that simply states, Good for one day with mom. The certificate is valid for one day and is to be used sometimes in the next calendar year. This is one of the best gifts because it ensures you get one full day without other family members, without other distractions, and you get to really enjoy the time with each other.
What do we do on these “Mom Days”? Good question. When we were smaller they could be anything from a nice lunch out, a beach day, or even just a fun day playing board games or cards. As we have gotten older, we have taken advantage of these days by trying new things, getting out of our comfort zones, or just being young again. My mom and I have taken a seq-way tour through a different city just an hour or two away. We have gone zip-lining, gone to a hockey game, even gone to see a psychic.
The point is, these special days can be shared with anyone who could use a break in life throughout the year. If you have busy schedules, giving this gift to your spouse could be worth its weight in gold. Take time out of your calendars this year and remember to enjoy the day or days with loved ones. You only get one chance at this life and you can’t take the “stuff” with you, so make memories together and experience all this wonderful world has to offer.
Note: If you decide to give this gift to a special someone this year, make it a tradition and do it every year. Make a point to try something new, take a trip on a tankful, or spend the day without the distraction of cell phones or electronics.
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